Reflection

     I have been experiencing a lot of change in my life these days. Just about two weeks ago, my boyfriend of almost two years left for graduate studies in New York City. I am also coming to a point in my education where I need to begin thinking about my own plans for graduate studies. With all of this change, I find now to be a good time to reflect on myself.
     The biggest thing I have learned, and this has been really hard for me, is to take life one day at a time. When you spend so much time absorbed in the future, which I am definitely guilty of sometimes, you lose sight of the importance of the present moment. In life, you never know what could happen, and the last thing I would want is to have regrets because I could not keep myself focused on what is happening now. I am trying my hardest to focus on enjoying the journey rather than fantasizing about the destination.
     Another thing I have learned is that I need to let go and allow myself to do things that scare me. Often times, this is when I have the most exciting and enlightening adventure. I have also realized through trying this that a lot of things will scare me. Everything in life is a risk, but when you allow yourself to take that risk you are also allowing yourself to receive an even better reward. This started for me I think when I decided that I needed to pursue my two passions, neuroscience and music, without sacrificing either. It scared me to think of what it could mean, where it would take me, and just how difficult my journey will be. However, I have found that the things I am most scared of are those that motivate me to become better than I could have possibly imagined.
     Lastly, I have learned that there must be a balance between being sure you are living for yourself while still being conscientious of others. Of course, what you do in life must be first and foremost for your own satisfaction and happiness. However, when you lose sight of those people you love most in your life, whatever you do for yourself becomes much less meaningful. When you succeed with others, you have the world. It really does not matter how successful you are if you do not have anyone to share it with.